#MindfulMonday | Thoughts of You

At times you may find yourself obsessing over whether people in your life are thinking about you. Is that because you’re not certain that you’re loved or have made a difference?

What do you want them to think of you, anyway? That you’re cute, or funny, or talented, or helpful? If they did think those things, what would it matter?

It shouldn’t matter a bit, actually. What matters is that you own those thoughts, that you think the world of you—not in an egotistical way, but in a deep, self-loving way.

​​​​​​​What others think of you only matters if it helps them grow or moves them to help another.

from
Head to Heart

copyright 2014 Jenifer Madson